Keep calm! Don’t feel pressured to reach an orgasm.
Relax and search for the right spots. It may take you a few times, but you’ll find it eventually. Self pleasure is all about exploration.
Try using toys, vibrators, anything that will help. Sometimes watching pornography helps. They make specific soft-hardcore porn for women that is less about the woman getting railed, and more about her being pleasured, which can help a lot. Search “female-friendly porn”
I wish you the best of luck!! <3
Well I live in the worst town for strippers, so I usually look for stuff online. But if I’m desperate, I usually just go to La Senza/Victoria Secret and by the sexiest stuff they have c:
If you’ve told him over and over, you need to get out of that situation. That sounds like a goddamn nightmare.
Tell him you want an intimate connection and you feel that you’re ready. It’s been a year. If it had been a few weeks-months, I could understand. But c’mon now. That sounds like torture.
If he doesn’t want you after you scream FUCK MEEEEE in his face, go find another willing suitor. <3 He should be catering to your needs, vows or not!